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From: Anne Harris
To: richard@crimeandsociety.org.uk
Sent: Tuesday, July 18, 2006 4:47 PM
Subject: Modern Urban Myths - Domestic Violence Some Questions
Answered.
Hi
Richard,
I received
an e-mail from your foundation today requesting views on the five
central points contained in the paper 'Is the criminal justice
system - as the Prime Minister has argued - 'utterly useless for
getting on top of 21st century crime'? This has prompted me to
contact you.
I am a
voluntary domestic violence help-line worker for a registered
charity called SNAP based in St Neots, Cambridgeshire which was
founded fifteen years ago because there were no professional /
voluntary organisations available in the area to help those suffering
from domestic abuse. Although this is a social issue, at the start
of our project it was even very difficult for women to receive
the necessary help because some local authorities believed there
couldn’t possibly be any abuse victims in our area.
According
to government research, domestic violence is costing the UK £23bn
yearly nearly all of which is spent on women as they are shown
as being the victims and men the perpetrators. This contradicts
our helpline experiences and thirty years of international research
and studies that indicate overwhelmingly women are as violent
towards men as men are towards women who are five times more likely
to report the violence. However, although there is now the opportunity
to acknowledge that both men and women can be violent and both
can ill-treat children the Government will not change their policies.
To stop
the appalling crime of domestic violence we have to address this
and, also the problem of unstable relationships that are fuelling
it even more. The Home Office has previously acknowledged that
marital breakdown presents a key risk factor in domestic violence.
In fact, the biggest protection against domestic violence and
child abuse is marriage – the very institution that government
is busy destroying along with men’s rights. By encouraging
fatherlessness, this government is putting children last.
Research
shows the root cause of the huge rise in anti-social behaviour
and juvenile crime lies in family breakdown. Through this we are
creating future perpetrators of domestic abuse who will be far
more violent. SNAP has joined groups throughout the country and
we have formed the Coalition for Equal Parenting and are lobbying
all political parties to try and reverse the family breakdown
trend. We are founder members of the Huntingdonshire Domestic
Violence Forum and attend the ‘Friend’s’ committee
that help raise funds for the refuge for women and children that
was built through SNAP’s nine-year campaign. We liaise with
drug/alcohol groups, and network with other local organisations
- we deal with racial, religious and sexual hate crime discrimination
through the Open Out Project. We have mentored young offenders
and have a very good working relationship with local colleges’
community education tutors and youth workers. People, university
students and professional organisations throughout the UK are
contacting us for advice. Our helpline is open 12 hours daily
each week.
Most members
of society find abuse unacceptable and all have probably made
contributions towards women’s safety. I would like to think
that most people would not like anyone to suffer abuse. However,
as I have already stated, domestic violence is a social problem
made up of men, women and children victims and unless we look
at it in a balanced way, we are never going to break the cycle
of abuse.
Below
is the link to our booklet that we've just had printed. This has
been based on data gathered from the BCS, the ONS and Home Office
statistics and research papers. In that regard it is unique in
published information about domestic violence. I thought you may
find it of interest:
Modern
Urban Myths - Domestic Violence Some Questions Answered.pdf
http://www.mensaid.com/modern_urban_myths.htm
Vera Baird
MP, the Parliamentary Under-Secretary at the Dept of Constitutional
Affairs (and a lawyer), has been minded to describe the booklet
as "a masterpiece of self-serving inaccuracy".
Why, you must ask?
Particularly
when her boss the Minister of State, Rt Hon Harriet Harman QC
MP, has described the same booklet as " very impressive and
wants you [St Neots] to keep up the good work".
Could it be that the booklet demolishes much of what Vera Baird
has been advocating in the House and casts doubt on what is left
standing ?
Yours
cordially,
Anne Harris,
Voluntary Help-line Worker/Project Coordinator. Member Men's Aid
St. Neots
Abuse Project(SNAP).
www.snapdomesticviolence.org.uk